Husband has been saying they’re solely associates however her girlfriend txted me this electronic mail that she noticed was from my husband to her GF. Which I broke down crying as a result of my husband doesn't even communicate to me like that nor take note of particulars like that about me. I feel it's extra… I advised him to finish it just a few months in the past after we had been having points in our marriage… this clearly exhibits how a lot he actually cares about her. I can't even keep in mind the final time he spoke to me like that & even promised me something. He didn't even inform me that he emailed her this. He doesn't know. However I'm speaking to the GF & each of us are discovering extra data & it's exhibiting much more that it's not only a good friend factor however like an emotional affair……., Previous points why l'm upset with this electronic mail. • My husband has crossed the road a number of instances. Responded to a good friend from the previous when she was additionally married she requested my husband" it's humorous to suppose in case you had a condom we’d of had intercourse that night time" he responded by saying "sure I do know lol" . • • even tho that occasion occurred earlier than we met the dialog occurred after they had been each married to somebody. I absolutely perceive that. (him saying good friend brother) could be deceptive however I feel he's nonetheless in denial. However when he first advised me about this lady being " greater than associates, than saying nearer, than him saying oh I see her as a sister" The GF txt my husband to cease speaking to her & then about 2weeks later he emails her. The rationale for the e-mail is that the lady blocked him on the cellphone. Sure we had been truly engaged on our points & we had been doing higher however then beginning July we began to really feel disconnected. He's been taking part in on his cellphone, out taking part in all day in the future out of the weekend discgolf. Drained the opposite day of the weekend. Like we’ve 5 children & he doesn't see that his spouse wants his assist & help. He thinks I don't help his job within the navy as a result of I do complain that he's barely dwelling. The rationale why I complain is as a result of when he's dwelling he doesn't wish to be right here with us like within the second he's watching his exhibits, taking part in on his cellphone. Or too drained. However I'm very drained as effectively I’ve below lively thyroid points & l additionally work. However he simply sees me as a keep at dwelling mother once I truly assist pay half the payments. He's in denial & he thinks saying that they’re like brother/ sister however I haven't met her? Doesn't sit effectively with me. On high of discovering out that she blocked my husband? So him listening to her & making guarantees & saying he's there for her it doesn’t matter what I feel is crossing the road specifically after we spoke about sure issues. He stated he would by no means exit of his manner to verify she's good & this & that. However she has blocked him on the cellphone from calls & txt a additionally on social media? So what ought to I feel? submitted by /u/Calm-Fly-3663 to u/Calm-Fly-3663 |